Embrace the Challenge, Enjoy the Ride

Embrace the Challenge, Enjoy the Ride

Friday, December 29, 2017

Recommended Watching # 2!


Hey!

Find here the second installment of the Recommended Watching series, a section in our blog which tries to bind together whatever topic we have finished and some cool movie which somehow deals with that topic. I believe it's the perfect way to actually soak in a language and the culture inherent to the countries speaking that language.
Topic # 5, in aiming to cover "culture and art" as a broad concept- has been heavily focused on performance arts and, especially, music, therefore I cannot but wholeheartedly recommend watching three films, each of which is a work of art in my modest opinion.


1) Let us begin with Alan Parker's "The Commitments", a SUPERBLY written, directed and acted film. I guess Stephen Frear's "High Fidelity" is the usual pick when choosing a film about music, but it cannot, in my book, hold a candle to 1991 "The Commitments". Never was too crazy about John Cusack (you should watch 1990 The Grifters yesterday, though!) and maybe there's a little too much focus on the guy's romantic affairs to my liking, but I might remember wrong. Anyway, there's enough to satisfy us music nerds, and there are great records and music introduced to curious, interested newbies. So, what the heck, watch that too!



Back to The Commitments. Reasons to watch it? Well, it is fun from beginning to end and, while showing late 80s Ireland's tough reality, it is a film to be enjoyed by anyone who is enthusiast about both music and English and it does feature great musical performances by that motley gang, The Commitments. But, enough said, I won't spoil the fun of watching this awesome flick by giving more details. Just watch it and tell me what you think about it. You can thrash it of course if you don't like it, but, pleeze, just after having watched it.


2) How could I not include 1984 "This is Spinal Tap" in the list? It is a cult movie among musicphiles everywhere and I remember reading about it all the time in Rock magazines I would buy circa 1990/1991, but since it was not a film you could easily find in video stores at the time, I didn't get to see it until the internet (and thus, the file sharing/ ilegal content downloading days) era. Having read, as I said, about it, I knew about many of the gags/sketches/jokes/funny anecdotes in the film, but that didn't prevent me from cracking up at ALL of them, as it is a hilarious film, indeed. The plot? Well, to cut a long story short, it is about a British Hard Rock/ Heavy Metal band, way past their prime, recording in and touring the US in hope of reviving their past glory and, err, kind of failing in such attempt. It definitely makes fun of the excesses of the so-called Rock Dinosaurs of the 60s and 70s. Ever heard of the saying "too old for Rock n' Roll"? Well, this flick is the embodiment of such a disheartening statement. But ALWAYS in a humorous tone.




Won't try to spoil it, but one of the myriad lines which sticks from the movie? "What's wrong with being sexy?" Hahaha. You'll get it when you watch it.

3) The third and last film I'm gonna recommend if you haven't seen it already is a rather recent one, 2014, Damien Chazelle's Whiplash. Wow, I downright loved this one. How can a band director be such a tyrannical monster? Regardless of whether you are interested in Jazz music at all or not, I prompt you to watch this one. Great music to be found here in, but above all, a SUPERB story, awesomely performed by the lead roles. So good it feels like an insult that it didn't get the Oscar in the 2015 Academy Awards ceremony (it went to the rather overrated "Birdman" instead).





Well, I think this can be enough for the moment. What about you? Do you know any movies about music that you could recommend to me or the rest of the classmantes? Eager to hear from you!


Enjoy!



Tuesday, December 5, 2017

Cool video!- How to improve your English with music and movies!... and more


Hey there!

I think I've mentioned this a couple of times, but if that's the case, I'll do it again: movies, literature, but especially music (have) played a PIVOTAL/CRUCIAL/PARAMOUNT role in making me interested at all in English. Music, in fact, was my gateway to this rather beautiful language. Had it not been for my curiosity about what those hairy rockers were singing about, I would have developed a different interest. So, thank you so much, (by then) unintelligible Heavy Metal bands' lyric sheets for awakening such an eagerness!

I'm not alone and it's not like I invented the wheel or the chocolate stuffed chocolate donut (which is better??); many people became interested and PROFICIENT in this language the same way. Movies and music are an endless source of new words, native speaker expressions and slang and you should all learn how to make the most of your cultural interests and kill two birds with thy same stone (figuratively of course!!!!). Find out more here:

How to improve your English with music and movies.


If you, like me, are a music enthusiast, chances are that some of the language found in the link above may ring a bell already/sound familiar. If not (and if so!), make sure you check it out!




Music vocabulary
 

Monday, December 4, 2017

16 ways to say "I like it"



The aim of this very interesting video is to give you some varied phrases and expressions to say "I like it!" in different ways. One of the problems students experience at this level is being stuck with rather simple language, quite similar to the one they were using in basic and intermediate levels. To say "I like something" is perfectly correct, of course, but sounds rather pedestrian and subpar at this stage. Thus, I encourage you (almost command you) to embrace new ways of expressing this very meaning.
Something to bear in mind is: these expressions are NOT interchangeable. Each one is used in a given context, may vary according to criteria of usage frequency, formality/informality degree, context, and language patterns used after them (collocations, verb forms, etc...). Make sure you do some research (Wordreference forums? anyone) so whenever you do use them, they sound natural and spontaneous.

Enjoy!



Movies Vocab



Hi there!


Cinema, like music is a very likely activity on which to spend our free time. Like books, movies transport us to a world of fiction, fantasy, romance or gritty realism; we have a good time with them and that's why most people love them.

Find here interesting language to talk about different movie genres.


Enjoy!







Wednesday, November 29, 2017

Funny! "100 Acts of Minor Dissent" by Mark Thomas (courtesy of classmate Iluminada)

Hi there again! One of the things I love about this job is that the learning process herein involved is ALWAYS bidirectional, that is, I end up learning from my students as much as they may learn from me! Wow, I feel so privileged for being paid for something like this! Thank you, Regional Ministry of Education!😆😆😆

Well, this time, a classmate mentioned in one of our sessions of the "Urban Sprawl, Urban Decay" topic a comedian/activist who had carried out some peculiar acts of protest/community activisim that are much more than mere, silly vandalism, but with profound serious convictions underlying.

You can watch some of said acts here:


100 Acts of Minor Dissent, pt. 1
 


100 Acts of Minor Dissent pt 2

 

Interview with Mark Thomas: on his peculiar campaign


 

In case you feel curious enough so as to buy the book, here it is!

"100 acts of minor dissent"



"Home" by Warsan Shire (Gorgeous Poem, courtesy of your classmate Iluminada)

During our venture throughout Unit 2 ("Urban Sprawl, Urban Decay") we dealt with different issues such as life in the cities, gentrification, urban art, community activism and volunteering. The topic of Refugees was also somehow addressed and that was when one of your classmates sent me this gorgeous poem about that very topic by Kenian-born, Somali-raised, London-based Warsan Shire. Her words on what moves refugees to flee their beloved country should be heard and seen by everyone.

Find the poem here:

Enjoy!

Declining Students' Resilience (INCREDIBLY INTERESTING article, courtesy of classmate Luis!)




One of your classmates sent me an article by email which I thought I just had to share with you.
You know? I was totally baffled a couple of weeks ago when I became aware that the number # 1 cause of death in Spain (and many developed countries) is SUICIDE. Not cardiac arrests, lung cancer or any other, but SUICIDE. Thinking about that breaks my heart, to be honest; how someone could be that desperate, to the point of taking their own life is downright disheartening. I just cannot imagine what a person must be feeling to make such a drastic and extreme choice. I don't think that generically blaming things on society helps at all. I think in many cases, that attitude is a shortcut to not hold oneself accountable for things we do and avoid facing the consequences of our actions. However, today's age of "dopamine on demand" (as Mike Matthews puts it) is not helping at all.

Find here the link to the article and make sure you read it and understand it. Really, really riveting insights:

Tuesday, November 28, 2017

Recommended Watching!

Hi there again! 
This is the first installment of the Recommended Watching series on the present blog (basically expanding on whatever topic we may be dealing with through different sociocultural contents, movies/series in this case), and today we're presenting not one nor two, but three films related to the topic "Education/Life Stages"

The first one is a pretty obvious choice, just if you- like me- were a child in the 80's. John Hughes' The Breakfast Club's plot revolves around the one-day detention five High School students are given and how five very different individuals (a beauty contest princess, a rebellious thug, an athlete, a brainy nerd and a strange outcast) end up, against all odds, becoming insparable friends at the end of that day. Beautifully shot and really well acted along with its unforgettable soundtrack, "The Breakfast Club" is a movie without great pretentions, but which can be easily enjoyed by most. And that's what matters at the end of the day, innit?



The second flick, 1998 Rushmore, is way more pretentious than the former one, but a pretty great film nonetheless. Director Wes Anderson's quirky and über-Indie style usually does very little for me. Some of his most acclaimed movies (Moonrise Kingdom, Grand Budapest Hotel...) are just as hipster as growing a thick beard, wearing horn-rimmed glasses and walk into a Starbucks' coffee bar to attend some stupid talk on banal stuff with the place full of snobbish dullards. Well, THAT is not my kind of thing, to be honest. But I kind of enjoyed two of his films: The Royal Tenenbaums and this very movie. So, just give it a go, you may enjoy it even more than I did!



I'm closing today's post with one of, in my humble opinion, the greatest films of the 90's: Todd Solonz's Welcome to the Dollhouse. Solonz became a household name with his next film, 1998 super-disturbing Happiness, but that one can be just too much for most, too impenetrable, maybe.
Here, the brutality of the facts (basically how the different, the ugly, the quirky are treated with extreme callousness during adolescence) is counterbalanced with a humorous tone, which means that even though you feel sorry for the main character (poor, constantly misunderstood Dawn Wiener), you will find yourself laughing at many times or simply enjoying the film.
One quote which I guess summarizes the whole movie story :"High school is better than Junior High. They'll call you names, but not as much"



Enjoy!

Listening links of the past!

Hey! 

I'm aware there have been a couple of listening exercises so far, some of which you didn't have access to. Now you can find the links to those videos (most of them available on YouTube), with fancy subtitles in the majority of them, so you can follow all shades of meaning and subtleties you may have missed in class.

Unit 1


Mindset: How You Can Fulfil Your Potential by Carol Dweck

 

Patriotism: English and Proud. Garry Bushell

  Unit 2

 

Gentrification of Harlem

 

 

 

Unit 3

 7 Habits of Highly Effective People (not the actual listening we did in class- that one is edited- but pretty interesting, nonetheless)

 

Unit 4

Should emotional intelligence be part of education?

Defining Emotional Intelligence

 

 


 

 




Sunday, May 28, 2017

The pursuit of happiness... ten (just to begin) achievable steps to a life with more ease


You may have noticed that because of the non-existence of a coursebook during the academic year and our reliance on kinda tailored materials instead, the contents of the course may have felt a little bit unpredictable at some point, as all those materials were not available until a couple of days before actually embarking on a given topic. Yeah, I guess that's the price for trying to be on the creative side of things haha. 
What I had planned, though, was to culminate the academic year with a ray of hope. There has been a pretty evident, humanistic, social, almost psychological approach underlying every single topic we have seen, from art to education, to work, to relationships and I guess some of the discussion topics, issues, etc, may have come across as rather bleak at some point. So I wanted the course's swan-song to be a more positive, constructive, life-affirming activity.
Few things feel more constructive than trying to work our way up to happiness and self-realization, right?

Here I list 10, pretty achievable in my view, steps to a life with more ease and bliss. The problem with "generic" tips such as "be yourself", "lead a healthier lifestyle" is that they are so unspecific that they end up becoming unrealizable. 
Without further ado:


1. Take a break from the social media

This is coming from someone who's absolutely hooked on Whatsapp and checks Facebook like twenty-seven times a day. For no particular reason. Just out of boredom, curiosity, gossiping, maybe vanity... Screw that, for once. I have come to the conclusion that the more one spends on the social media, the less satisfied they feel with their free time or with their time in general. And I know there's tons of useful information there, but we should learn to be more efficient with handling the information online. Grab something you like about the topic/hobby you are interested in, and just do something with it! Do not just fall into the trap of "paralysis by analysis"


2. Get rid of unwanted stuff: give them away, throw them away.

This is pretty self-explanatory, yet we fail to do it again and again. But, boy, does it feel good to make room for the useful stuff at home or just make room, period!

3. Create more, consume less

ABSOLUTELY. I'm pretty sure some are gifted with the ability to customize clothes they already have and reinvent their closet, so what is the point of splashing out your hard-earned money on the umpteenth dress, jacket when you have enough gear? The same goes for eating out, which is great, for sure. Why not trying from time to time to make some great, delicious meals and treat yourselves and impress others with memorable dinners and make restaurant visits a more occasional thing? Or write, or play music, or paint. Just create!


4. Spend quality time with people you care for


I stress here the QUALITY component. So let's cut down on the cell phone gazing, right? Drop it for a while in a place where it is just out of reach and then, laugh with, share stories with, compliment family, friends, pets and loved ones. And LISTEN to what they have to say, for God's sake!

5. Exercise or, rather, MOVE.

"Exercise is not a punishment for what you eat, but a celebration of what your body can do"

God, do I love that line. And so do you, don't you? Yes, you do

This is quite simple. Even if you're not naturally drawn to the idea of getting a gym membership and dealing with that rather frothy environment and atrocious music gyms usually have. Right, I'm with you there. But just try to have a more active lifestyle: walk, cycle, take the stairs, get a pet (it will force you to be more active), dance, jump in bliss, heck... if you feel like smashing some push ups or bodyweight squats, don't hold yourself back... just MOVE!


6. Don't give in to anger (or negative emotions for that matter)


This does not mean being a perpetual wimp and remain cold and unaffected by all kinds of life events which may not be funny. But reveling in anger does not go anywhere. Believe me, I know what I'm talking about. Try to handle any of the arguments, disputes or everyday minutiae with less anger. But...


7. ... Embrace discomfort if necessary


If succumbing to one's fury is rarely going to work in solving one's personal problems, shying away from pain or sadness won't do the job, either. Pain is an essential part of our lives, and a source of reflection, learning, and change. Maybe the greatest life-changing decisions emanate from the hardship, from breakups, from pain. If one is constantly pleased with their life, why change? But when discomfort hits hard, just do not avoid it and rather take your life to another level.

8. Yet don't be afraid to deliver justice


It feels great when confronting an unjust situation, you do something about it. This does not mean being a belligerent, rude prick, but putting certain people in their place if need be. You can act "locally" (with inconsiderate bosses, neighbors, partners, colleagues, asshole buddies, etc) or "globally", denouncing abuse from the big powers and greedy ones.


9. Listen to your favorite music, preferably in the morning


I read somewhere about the importance of morning rituals, and the powerful effect they have on setting the tone for the rest of the day. I have noticed that for me personally, listening to those songs that I sometimes hum in my head when I walk my dog first thing in the morning puts me in a terrific mood! I'm pretty sure it will have the same effect on you!


10. Focus not so much on the end result and enjoy the RIDE

I said it before, and I'll say it again: knowing that there will always be opportunities for learning new things is amazing. Fight for your goals, be so good they can't ignore you and unleash the best version of you, but make sure you enjoy the journey

;-)

Must watch! Masterpiece alert! Black Mirror's 3rd Edition's NOSEDIVE


Do yourself a favor and watch this NOW! 
Well, let me give you a little bit of context here: If you are into fiction series (many are more drawn to them than to actual movies and the number of brutally good, well-made, extremely compelling series may overwhelm even the most ardent TV lover with lots of free time on their hands!) you may have heard of the British miniseries "Black Mirror". If not, you should have: it is a MONUMENTALLY good three-season production, mostly revolving around the dehumanization of today's society as a by-product of modern technology, mass media, the Internet, social networks... It paints a very bleak picture, for sure, so do not turn to it expecting to have a popcorn filled Sunday afternoon easy-watch, because it will very likely let you down in that regard.
If you are, however, not that impressionable or over-sensitive and just want to have an incredibly smart portrayal of the problems previously mentioned and are not afraid of watching a series which will actually make you think, I cannot recommend this series enough.
As we have recently tackled the topic media and, more specifically, social media, leading to very interesting discussions about their effect on humans in class, there is no way you should miss this AWESOME episode which kickstarts the 3rd season of the series (which in turn, comes across as bleaker, scarier than ever). I don't want to spoil anything here, but it shows the extents to which people's obsession for being accepted in the social networks can reach. But please, judge for yourselves.
Seriously, not unlike the really good episodes of the series (most of them, actually), it is a masterpiece of modern art, in my view.

Tuesday, May 23, 2017

The next BIG thing: on today's never ending diet and nutrition craze


Hi there again!

I have mentioned on several occasions how interesting I find the topic nutrition and health, as I profoundly believe how closely linked those two concepts are; the extent to which I believe that what we put in our bodies affects in an almost direct cause-effect relationship our physical, mental and emotional health has made me an enthusiast of the matter and an avid reader and listener of any interesting piece of information that can be found online and in books. This very topic might probably not interest you to the same extent as it interests me, but I'll try to make my point, anyway.


I have never really been interested in following a given plan in order to lose weight, nor have I been interested in doing the same to gain weight, either. For the last couple of years I have been primarily interested in following the way to eat that would make me healthier, more physically and mentally capable, more energetic, stronger, more athletic and leaner; in other words, the diet that could unleash the best version in me, in the physical, mental and emotional realms. In doing so, as I mentioned above, I've paid attention and read with great curiosity any new approach on nutrition with a decent scientific basis.

My conclusions?

a) Well, the amount of information  out there is ABSOLUTELY OVERWHELMINGThere is way too much information to take in and every new, novel, revolutionary approach to nutrition (aka: "diet") will, of course, contradict the former one: have 5-6 meals a day vs. have only 2 or 3 substantial ones, milk and dairy products are essential vs. the adult human body is not ready to assimilate the nutrients in milk and therefore should not be consumed by adult humans, breakfast is probably the most important meal of the day and should never be skipped vs. "breakfast" is an oxymoron on itself, as we are not really "fasting" when we sleep and as such, we can do with a very light meal during our mornings, watch your dinners and try not to eat anything 2-to-3 hours before going to sleep vs. feast at night- as it is the time when we naturally have time to enjoy that meal with the family after a long day- and don't fear carbohydrates at that time- as they will make you sleep better-, avoid "starchy carbs" vs. eat plenty of them in your diet, and so on and so forth... and all of them eloquently put to words and not devoid of scientific justification, with graphics, charts, tables, numbers, experiments, examples, etc... Quite difficult to make the right choice, isn't it?

b) Every now and then, a new "superfood" will emerge proud: the soy sprouts and sunflower oils and green teas of yesterday are the quinoa and stevia of today and who knows what will happen tomorrow. I am starting to think that there may be some vested interests behind the sudden spotlight on those miraculous products.

c) For every "super aliment", every now and arises a "scapegoat food", a dreaded substance that people should avoid at all costs and which so-called doctors and bullshitters alike warn hapless, ignorant citizens not to dare to consume, as they will give them cancer, cause all types of biological dysfunctions and make them put on 10 kilos in one go. Yeah, you've all been warned of the much-maligned usual suspects: sugar, alcohol, palm oil, red meat, milk (or any dairy product, for that matter), gluten foods, all of which can be so mean to you, your health and your figure in so many different ways. That's complete BULLSHIT if you ask me. Sometimes, the easiest, simplest information is the right one. I have been told all my life that everything in moderation is likely to be good for you and everything done excessively turns out to be harmful. To this day, that makes complete sense to me. I know that most of us need something to believe in and some creed to pledge our allegiance to, and that many feel happy when thinking that if you eat/drink (as much as you want of) these foods and NEVER try those ones, you'll always be healthy and in good shape. Never heard of the principles of energetic balance, huh?

d) Moral issues cannot be shunned; well, I cannot shun them. We all love pets and find those videos with puppies and kitties absolutely cute, yet we are sometimes a little impassive or kind of insensitive to the suffering animals have to go through in factory farms and laboratories in order for us to enjoy our meals and buy medicines and look good and whatnot. For that reason, as I read and heard- just like you I guess- about the wretched conditions livestock and laboratory animals undergo, the idea of becoming a vegetarian- which I was at some point in my life- or even a vegan-in the end, dairy products and egg production are not devoid of suffering inflicted to the animals producing them- crossed my mind. Mike Mahler, a vegan bodybuilder, gives some interesting insights on the matter: "I realized that I did not want to contribute to the unnecessary suffering of other beings and I knew that I needed to make some changes. I started thinking about how animals are abused in labs and further solidified the new direction that I was taking. In addition, to giving up meat, I decided that I would make sure to purchase products such as toothpaste, shampoo, soap etc that were not tested on animals. I gave up meat gradually. I started off by giving up all meat except fish. Then I gave up fish but continued to eat eggs and dairy. I, of course, ended up giving up all animal products. That was 10 years ago and I have never looked back." Super interesting views, for sure, but then he continues "I am an ethical vegan and believe you are not entitled to talk about peace, or even be at peace with yourself, when you have a steak on your plate, as an animal died in agonizing pain to end up there". Well, Mike, slow down, will you? Let's not forget that Hitler was a vegetarian. There may be many moral reasons to consider giving up all meat products, but decrying all meat eaters as vile, vicious savages is too much, I think.

e) As there is not a simple nutritional approach that will work for every single person (as we are different, have different genes, different body shapes and needs, different metabolisms, etc.), you have to find out what works for you: I for example have observed that I feel much more active and energetic early in the morning when I haven't had anything to eat, and can pretty much get by for a couple of hours on an empty stomach (exercising, working, researching...), as I have never been much of a breakfast person; 6-7 hours of good, solid sleep and a large cup of coffee will do the job hehe. I also do not have those many meals a day, like all dieticians (well, mainstream ones) say you should (mostly 2 or 3, but kind of big ones) and I feel really hydrated because- not surprisingly- I drink plenty of water too, something like 5 liters a day. I also like opening the fridge and seeing lots of green and colorful stuff: asparagus, zucchini, pears, mushrooms, bananas, berries, lettuce, tomatoes, cucumbers, spinaches, watermelon, mangoes, avocados, you name it... I just love that stuff, but I eat plenty of fish, meat, eggs, thick carbs like rice, potatoes and all types of nuts as well. I have never had problems feasting at night and going to bed something like 30 minutes after finishing a big meal. The thing is that this diet works for me and makes me feel great, but your ideal meal plan might be different!

f) The concept of "diets/ miracle diets" is, in my opinion, absolutely worthless: a shameful moneymaker at the expense of people unhappy with their own image, desperate for quick changes. Things like the Ketogenic/Atkins/ Duncan diet (pretty similar in their principles), the artichoke diet or whatever stupid next big thing, make no sense in my humble opinion, for many reasons: firstly, because they are impractical (scheduling and planning your meals according to those diets would mean killing your social life- eating out with friends and family, special dates and events, birthdays, Christmas, etc- altogether) and because they make the person following them absolutely deprived and, as a consequence, miserable. That who starves on artichoke or broccoli for a period of time is very likely to feel angry at the world and anxiously pig out and binge on all the "forbidden foods" they crave for, eat back all the calories previously burnt (plus many, many more) and ruin everything and put on twice as much weight as they managed to lose (Why? Because they feel deprived!). In today's world, people want shortcuts for everything and, unfortunately, there are no shortcuts for being healthier and fitter, and no extreme approaches should be taken, either. If one wants to be healthier and fitter (not necessarily "lean", "slim" or "ripped", mind you, though that- a lean, nice-looking body- is, of course, a nice side effect/outcome of a healthy lifestyle), they will have to find the right combination of nutrition, exercise and rest that works for them, that is practical (i.e.: it fits easily in their working, family, leisure life) and that they can sustain for almost the rest of their lives. Extreme measures and shortcuts are bound to fail, miserably.

g) And, on top of that, food is a pleasure, right? Something to be enjoyed with all of our senses, a social activity... and if someone is deliberately (which means that it is not because of some medical prescription, abject poverty or anything like that) missing the delight of a delicious meal with friends, family or partner, well, I feel sorry for them. So, even if you're following a particular meal plan/ diet for a particular purpose, there is no reason why you shouldn't occasionally cheat on it and enjoy that gorgeous pasta dish or that yummy dessert you like so much. That will make you happier and isn't happiness the ultimate goal in everyone's life?

What's your opinion on the issue?

Thursday, May 11, 2017

Long live lexical creativity! Enter the PORTMANTEAUS!



Are you familiar with words like "brunch", "Sitcom", "Brexit", "Pokemon", "podcast", "cyborg"? I'm sure you are. Well, they are examples of "portmanteaus", words stemming from the combination of different ones, in order to describe a new meaning/ reality. That's part of what's called "lexical creativity" and which contributes to English (in this case, but also Spanish or any other language for that matter) being an ever changing and evolving language.

Check this SUPER interesting and funny article!




Wednesday, May 10, 2017

Whatsapp on Trial!: 10 Signs you are addicted to Whatsapp


Hey!

I'm copying here an interesting article I found on the web. Pretty much like the naked truth. So true it hurts. Check it out!

10 SIGNS YOU ARE ADDICTED TO WHATSAPP

Come on, let's admit, we spend more time on WhatsApp in a day than we actually spend in front of our computer screens at work or home. Chatting, exchanging texts, forwarding jokes and sometimes, just teasing each other with non-sense talks, that's most of us all day long.

But are you addicted to it like REALLY? Read these 10 signs and tick mark on what suits you and then decide how much WhatsApp has affected your life and how close you are to addiction!

1. If you cannot resist the urge to pick up your phone and check the message each time WhatsApp rings, you're certainly addicted to it. So much that even if you are sitting in the middle of something really important, you would make a point to check the new message first. 

2. Checking your WhatsApp messages for any new messages each time you get up in the middle of the night is a clear sign that you have surrendered your life to it. Also, if WhatsApp is the first thing in the morning after you wake up, you are in no better situation.

3. Checking "last online" of your contact list is something that is uncalled for, yet most of us do for no reason whatsoever. If someone has to message you, they will. By checking the last time they were online won't make you get a ping from them instantly. So, why bother so much?

4. Frequently checking your friends' profile pictures on WhatsApp is nothing, but a clear indication of you being inquisitive about your friends and fancy lives they are leading, which is reflected through their display pictures. Not just this, once you have seen the pic, you want to compliment them by sending a quick text. Ah, wasn't Facebook enough for this?

5. Changing your status and display pictures on WhatsApp almost every second day is a clear sign that you are addicted and cannot survive without it. It is like you have to announce it to the world whatever you are doing and, honestly, there is nothing wrong about it. Just you tend to take it a bit too seriously at times.

6. You are addicted to WhatsApp if you have a habit of continuously checking your phone again and again after you have sent someone and haven't received a reply from them for a few minutes. Is waiting that tough? Strange we don't even want to give the benefit of doubt to that person, who may genuinely be busy. 

7. If you love to forward all jokes- text, images and videos- with many in your contact list, well, you are definitely addicted. Even if the other person never acknowledges any of your forwarded messages, that won't prevent you from continuing doing so.

8. Keeping a tab on everyone's status updates on WhatsApp is another indication that you have all the time in the world to know what is happening in others' life and what is going in their mind. We do tend to judge the person on the basis of what they have posted, and also on the basis of their WhatsApp status, and if not this, then take the sarcasm as if it was aimed at us.

9. If you HAVE picked up fights or arguments with friends for a reason that, despite being online on WhatsApp, they didn't respond to your message or didn't ping you, clearly you have given your life to it. Understand it only leads to more confusions and misunderstanding.

10. Driving, eating, sleeping, working or whatever you are doing, if you reply to a WhatsApp message as soon as you receive it, clearly shows that you are addicted to the medium. Even if that means disturbing your sleep or taking the risk while driving or getting distracted from work, does not really bother you. Well, in this case, you most certainly have a problem.




FORGIVE ME LORD, FOR I HAVE SINNED




I have to say that I'm quite shocked after reading this list since, at some point in my life I might have done all of those questionable behaviors! Like an adolescent suffering from ADD (Attention Deficit Disorder) who just cannot focus! Shame on me!

Therefore, I will say my prayer, in the seek of my personal redemption (and for the sake of maturity):

Forgive me Lord, for I have sinned:
Not only have I done all of the aforementioned at a point in my life,
but I have also indulged in Facebook narcissism and megalomania.

I confess that I only put up pictures of me- and what's worse, even Selfies- looking really good, when my everyday appearance may have little to do with said photos. Wanting to make a certain impression on female FB users may or may not have been related to such a demeanor.
Yes my Lord, I have indulged in FB photo imposture.

Also in many an occasion I have posted some line, message or text which I thought witty, sharp and ingenous with the intention of being complimented by other users, by means of comments of approval or just "likes". 

I also plead guilty to checking way too often (like every five minutes or so), if my new publication has more "likes" than the last time I checked.
Yes, I have been a compliment-seeker

I confess that all of the previous may be the result of vanity, conceitedness or self-admiration, all of which I know are capital sins, hence, with the present prayer I make a plea for your mercy and possibility of redemption and further salvation as, at this very moment in my life I strive for personal integrity and transcendence.

Without further ado, your servant,

J.


What about you? How much of an addiction to WhatsApp and the social media have you got?

Please, your insights on the comments box!